Tuesday, September 13, 2011

The last rays of sun.

Black leather jacket, Sofifi. Black hat, Romwe. Cropped t-shirt and black denim shorts, Forever 21. Leopard print tights, H&M. Black platform boots, Jeffrey Campbell Everests from Nelly. Baryshnik and Biianka wear amazingly fluffy cat fur (baby, they were born that way) and collars from our local pet store.

(Photos by me.)


It's proving to be a real challenge to take outfit photos as it keeps getting darker and darker with every passing day. The low, right before sunset light I'm depending on for my photography seems to think it's a great idea to hide behind massive rain clouds almost every night, turning most of my shoots into very wet and not exactly successful occasions.

In other words - managing to capture a couple of rays of sun last night was quite the pleasant surprise! Unfortunately I still wasn't that happy with how the photos turned out, at least not the ones of me - my kitties never fail to look sensationally cute. It's in their dna, they can't help it!

As you can see, I simply cannot get enough of this leather jacket. It's just like with red lipstick - sure, outfits might look good without it, but they look so much better with it. Let's say that I will try to change it up a bit, but I can't promise I'll succeed! Well, I guess that if I must have a "signature item", I can easily think of a lot worse items than this. It's so soft and warm, and I love the fact that the sleeves are the perfect length. (What can I say - tall people generally have long arms, and I'm no exception - which means my wrists are usually uncomfortably cold from October all through March.)

Yesterday, I received a comment that said my photos are "booooring", because they "don't look different". At first, I thought that was a bit rude - come on, I'm doing the best I can, I never claimed to be frickin' Annie Leibovitz! - but after seeing these photos above, I must agree that Ms/Mrs/Mr Anonymous does make a valid point.


Ooops. Ummm... Well. I have no excuses. I surrender. You're right! Oh, and my boyfriend agrees with you, as well. He really can't understand why people would want to look at photos of the same person every single day. I tried reminding him that he has to look at the same person every single day as well, and I don't hear him complain. (And he's not even the slightest bit interested in what I'm wearing.)

Plus - hopefully the photos - boring or not - aren't the only reason why you wonderful people keep coming back here. I guess I'm hoping that you, for some reason, think I'm nice/funny/whatever in other ways, too. Because as sad as it may sound, I'm not a person who's surrounded by a lot of friends in real life, and it's a true blessing to get the chance to communicate with all of you through this blog.

I'm not saying I don't have friends. I do. I just don't have that one person that I can call and tell all of those random things that come to mind, that I can discuss my thoughts and feelings and ideas with at any given time. I used to, but I don't anymore. They say relationships might come and go but friendships are forever; well, when your best friend is an angel looking down on you, it still gets pretty darn lonely. So if you've found that one friend that you can share everything with, the huge, life-altering moments and the tiny randoms, don't ever take that friendship for granted. Cherish it, nurture it, and make sure you're the best friend you can be.

Thank you for everything. You make this life less lonely.








50 comments:

  1. I come back again and again and again (several times a day, even more if I'm in my study of religion class!) because you're a beautiful writer - you're somebody I can relate to, somebody who inspires me.

    and I think you're beautiful. I'm lonely, so you're not alone in that. you make me feel just a little bit less lonely :)

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  2. You're one of the few blogs I enjoy reading, both for your beautiful writings (be they humorous or poetic) and your outfits. I find that I've been able to figure out some outfits in my own closet that I wouldn't have put together based on pictures that you take. So your posts are quite informative. :)

    Sadly, I know how easy it is to get lonely. (Still having real life friends, but it gets lonely sometimes). I'm a freelance artist so I'm usually cooped up in my home studio with not alot of money to go out. I'm hoping that one day I can afford a better camera to do a blog like yours. So keep up being an inspiration. :)

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  3. I come back not just because your beautiful outfit photos, but for your entertaining writing too :)

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  4. I com back here because you're the type of girl I wish I was friends with in real life, you are so loving and caring (plus you have amazing style!) The way you write is wonderful and you inspire me to live life to the full xx

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  5. please, please, please, make a question post!!
    i love reading every single line of your posts and it makes me craving asking you tons of questions!

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  6. Girl, you definitely are not boring! I would say beautiful, intelligent, and sweet are the correct adjectives. It is such a delight to see your outfit posts on a daily basis, because your style is truly "you" and everything just looks amazing on you. Loving the feline frenzy with the biker jacket. I just wore these cat print JC Litas in my recent post that reminded me of you. From one cat lover to another, have a lovely week!

    ♥, Jamie
    www.TheFancyTeacup.com

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  7. Hej Annika! Ville bara säga att jag tycker om att läsa denna blogg och titta på dina fina kläder, har följt den i en månad men har inte kommenterat en enda gång, fast det ska bli ändring på saken nu. Det var mycket insiktsgivande att läsa om din depression för mig, jag hade själv fortfarande rätt svårt att vara glad trots att jag i princip är "frisk" från min depression jag hade i vintras (fast ibland undrar jag om jag någonsin kommer att släppa alla mörka tankar, de kommer tillbaka så ofta). Särskilt lättande var det att läsa om att du skriver den här bloggen för att det är en av de få saker som är roligt. Jag har själv släppt en del intressen för att de får mig att känna mig töntig trots att jag tycker det är roligt. Har ingen aning om vad som fått mig att tänka så. Kram!

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  8. Jaaaaa, katterna är tillbaka! Hurra!

    Och jag älskar känslan i dina foton, Annika. Hur kan det någonsin bli tråkigt att titta på?

    Kram på dig!

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  9. Your photos are far from boring! Your photography is beautiful even in apparently crappy light, and yours is one of the few blogs I actually read, not just look at. Constructively negative comments can sometimes be useful, and everyone's entitled to their opinion, but don't necessarily listen to all of them. you don't get as many followers as you have by boring the hind legs off people. :P

    Stay wonderful

    Ruby xx

    http://northernunderground.blogspot.com/

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  10. You don't have to change to please the one commenter, but you could always find new locations. I really enjoyed your photos with your sister and when you went out. Might be fun to go exploring and find new backgrounds anyway if you feel like changing something.

    I really enjoy your blog and I think your writing is strong and really brings your voice across.

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  11. The pictures are amazing!!!!!!!!!! The light is so beautiful... I love the hat!!
    Your cat is so cute!!!

    Xxx from Formentera!! :D

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  12. That is so sweet of you Annika. But the love is reciprocal because I just love your style and writing (and it also helps that your photography is pretty amazing!). I'm intrigued and I'll also keep coming back ;)

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  13. OrigamiGirl, you have no idea how much I would love to take my photos on other locations! But what can I do? I live where I live, and I wish I was brave a confident enough just to set up a tripod somewhere, but oh my goodness... people around here would never stop talking about that crazy woman taking photos of herself, and I'm sorry, I don't want that. I can get really jealous sometimes of bloggers who have boyfriends who take their photos on a million different locations!

    Oh, and I do take photos in different spots around my house - but you can't really tell that I'm standing somewhere else, because it's all green, green, green. :)

    Hopefully you all won't get too bored with my stupid garden!

    And thank you for your kind words <3

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  14. Keep doing your thing! I bet it's harder than you make it look, and all the time you put into it to make it look amazing. Thank you for that. Love reading your thoughts every day.

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  15. Jag ar itne en sa regelbunden besokare sa det kan handa att jag missat ett svar pa denna fraga, men jag undrar lite stilla varfor i hela varlden du borjat skriva pa engelska helt plotsligt. Jag foredrog dig pa svenska, det var en annan originalitet i spraket da, tycker jag.

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  16. I love how pretty the light looks coming through the trees behind you with the shallow depth of field. almost like they could be fairy lights! lovely!

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  17. Hej Anonym! Ja, jag har svarat på den frågan många gånger. Orkar inte dra alla anledningar nu eftersom jag skriver från telefonen, men den främsta är att en stor majoritet av de besökare som faktiskt är regelbundna inte förstår svenska. Ledsen att du inte gillar hur jag skriver på engelska, men du vet, man kan inte göra alla nöjda!

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  18. Splendid !:)
    Especially the last picture, you look so good in the hat.

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  19. Goosh I love your photos and posts. Your blog gives me a little bit of happiness. You make my life a little bit less lonely :)).
    It doesn't matter the background is similar on the following photos, your clothes, the way of remaking pictures, the interesting posts, your writing style - I love it. You're a good writer, in my opinion. It's nice to look at amazing outfits and read something interesting in the same time.
    Aaaand according to your note, I think that you would be a great friend. What a shame that I live in Poland :((. Greetings from PL !:).

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  20. wow, first of all, you look gorgeous, i love the outfit. i have the same tights, only gray, but i adore leopard print! and i'm dying for your shoes! second, your pics are not boring, and i do find it rude for someone to say that. if that's what they think then they shouldn't be reading it, but they don't need to be rude. I have the same problem with poses and locations- i take my own photos, so it's challenging coming up with new places i feel comfortable with, since i have to pull out a tripod and all. a lot of my photos end up in my backyard. it's not supposed to necessarily be about the location though, it's about your outfits, which are great. whenever someone says something like that it's usually because they're jealous or to make themselves feel better, so don't listen to them!

    also, i'm quite a loner myself, so i wish we were closer, we'd make great friends! my "friends" don't really care about fashion per se, not the kind that i do. they're more basic, so the blog has definitely helped me connect with like minded people (like you!). keep your head up and keep doing what you do! :)

    ps. i got your comment about my blog layout- not sure why it's not showing up? I use Firefox as well and I've never had anyone mention any problem with it. what size is your screen? are you zoomed in perhaps? i'll look and see if i can find anything wrong. if not, i can always email you what i wrote :)

    Beneath the Glass

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  21. Gosh, I would like to hug you. I'm so grateful you've started this blog. I always keep reading all the other posts first in my blogroll to keep the best for last: you.

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  22. I love your cat. This weekend a kitten got stuck in the motorcap of a car in my street for two whole days (!) you could hear it was really scared, called the police, firemen, but they couldn't do anything until the people of the car came back from a weekend. Luckily we saved it. I don't come back for your pcitures, well yes i do, but that's not the only reason. You write beautifully.

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  23. Well, maybe to someone your photos *dont look different*, but at least your blog IS very different from other blogs `out there` on the internet...definitely not *booooring* for me! :)))

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  24. Dear Annika, everytime i see you have a new post i'm eager to see it. The think about people is that we are all just trying to make connections: to feel like individuals, but also part of something greater. we need people to share things with. and even though you don't know me, i'm happy get to share some of your experiences and photos. your blog is honest. that's why i see it everyday.

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  25. WOow AND there is a lot of haughty § freshy melancholy in this (as dazzling as ethereal) summery twilight Dear !!!

    à Bientôt, Antoine

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  26. I mainly come back here every day because of the writing... The photos, which I don't think are boring at all, are just the cherry on top.

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  27. Jag älskar din blogg och tycker inte alls att du är tråkig!

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  28. I dont usually comment though ive been reading your blog ever since it started and i look forward to it every day as sad as that sounds but reading this I had to say exactly what ive been wanting to say for ages, Annika you are not just nice you are so bloody lovely and sweet and your not just funny you actually make me laugh out loud so much and your clothes and photos are pretty cool you have a strong style and you are actually breathtakingly beautiful so please dont doubt yourself so much because as a british teenage girl you are such an inspiration to me ive showed my younger sister your blog too because I dont want her to miss out on your amaziness oh and your a fellow top harry potter fan whats not to love? im sorry about your best friend fanny she sounds like she was a top girl and im sorry this is so long but have faith in yourself and stay strong because you are also a top girl Annika.

    peace & love xxx

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  29. Stunning! I absolutely adore your cat too, so cute! xo

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  30. I mostly visit/read your blog because you're a great writer with interesting thoughts, and you seem like a really wonderful person I wish to get to know. But, I also think your outfits are cool and you take nice photographs. That's reason enough for me :) Xoxo/Lisa

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  31. Heey! Thanks for ur comment and suggestion, I made a lighter background! :D REally love ur blog, u look like a supermodel!!! love ur style!
    im ur new follower

    kisses N.

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  32. Annika, your amazing, I love both your "boringly" gorgeous pictures and your lovely writing!

    I just love what you wrote at the end. So honest <3 I know it is hard to go on. but you're doing it amazingly! Keep going! We're here for you!

    http://myfashioninsider.blogspot.com/

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  33. I love the way you write, and I love your sense of style. Your shoes are totally amaze balls, and I lovelovelove the tights. Animal print. Rawrrrrr.

    http://www.glamkittenslitterbox.com/
    Twitter: @GlamKitten88

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  34. babe, I love your blog: your photos, your cats and your writing!I think you are doing an awesome job! It's so inspiring.. And the rays of sun that you always manage so well..

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  35. You look so great! I'm so happy that my friend recommended your blog. I'm following you and you're one of my favorites!

    http://ieva-thecraze.blogspot.com/

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  36. You're anything but boring! One of the few daily bloggers who actually have something to say for themselves! x hivenn

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  37. YOU are the least boring,most talented blogger I have ever come across!Don't ever change!

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  38. Eh excuse me? BORING? That's the craziest thing I've ever heard! And I mean ever!

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  39. it's great! <3
    and I love so much your cat!!

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  40. looooove all the photos !!! wonderful shoes and lips =)

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  41. Finaste Annika! Du är fantastisk (och supervacker)! Jag hoppas att terapin kommer hjälpa fort som tusan så att du själv snart förstår vilken fantastisk människa du är!
    Mängder av kramar
    Alina

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  42. åh, sötaste katten ju. och det är sånna soliga dagar man vill ha för alltid.,

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  43. Gorgeous look! & nice simple combination
    Love the combination that you did with the clothes, looks really amazing.
    i adore your design too. thanks for your comment on my blog

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  44. Jag blir så berörd, av din text och dina tankar. För, till skillnad från andra bloggar märker man att den som skrivit detta faktiskt har skrivit detta. Och jag hoppas för allt i världen att du är och förblir lycklig.

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  45. I like this outfit, it`s very interesting. And these pictures are very nice! Sunny and full of light.

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